Noirin feels alone in the house.
Posted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 11:41 am
She confided in the diary room and couldn't help but cry and show how vulnerable she is. My heart went out to her
I think she truly is finding it a struggle to be herself and she has no female friend as an ally. The closest she has to a sympathetic female friend is actually Rodrigo. Rodrigo has an underlying seriousness and empathic nature and unlike Freddie or Siavash, no attraction to get in the way.
I find it very sad that the three females Lisa, Karly and Sophie all consider her to be apart from them or unfriendly when it is clear to me that none of them have been able to bond with her because of their lack of intellectual ability - i'm sorry to say it, but it's true. They have immediately defined her as an aloof, siren of men and are treating her accordingly. They would never have wanted her in their group when Kris was around unless they could be sure of securing her votes for the opposing individuals. They have accused her of trying to hop between groups because they are too small minded to see that she is being sociable and they then accuse her of not being sociable and that they have all made efforts with her but don't have any reciprocation. Well.... which is it girls?
Siavash quite rightly pointed out to her that they weren't to be trusted because if he hadn't at that stage - she might still be unwittingly nominating the one group of people she could actually trust - and not the people who she shouldn't.
So anyway. I feel for Noirin. It must be very difficult for her as she has all these expectations of her being thrown up by other people and it is all too much. If she makes herself aloof, she is criticized for being unfriendly if she is friendly she is leading people on. It's a no win situation for her.
I think she truly is finding it a struggle to be herself and she has no female friend as an ally. The closest she has to a sympathetic female friend is actually Rodrigo. Rodrigo has an underlying seriousness and empathic nature and unlike Freddie or Siavash, no attraction to get in the way.
I find it very sad that the three females Lisa, Karly and Sophie all consider her to be apart from them or unfriendly when it is clear to me that none of them have been able to bond with her because of their lack of intellectual ability - i'm sorry to say it, but it's true. They have immediately defined her as an aloof, siren of men and are treating her accordingly. They would never have wanted her in their group when Kris was around unless they could be sure of securing her votes for the opposing individuals. They have accused her of trying to hop between groups because they are too small minded to see that she is being sociable and they then accuse her of not being sociable and that they have all made efforts with her but don't have any reciprocation. Well.... which is it girls?
Siavash quite rightly pointed out to her that they weren't to be trusted because if he hadn't at that stage - she might still be unwittingly nominating the one group of people she could actually trust - and not the people who she shouldn't.
So anyway. I feel for Noirin. It must be very difficult for her as she has all these expectations of her being thrown up by other people and it is all too much. If she makes herself aloof, she is criticized for being unfriendly if she is friendly she is leading people on. It's a no win situation for her.