Post by someone on DS about what Danica does

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Post by someone on DS about what Danica does

Post by Flossie » Tue Aug 21, 2012 10:03 pm

Lots of misconceptions about Danica's career
Good evening all. This will be a TL;DR for a lot of you however you should read it if you genuinely wish to learn more about how women like Danica make a living.

Now I've read a lot of posts on here and some of you are so wide of the mark about this that I'd like to inform you from a place of experience. I have been giving money and buying gifts for women like Danica for nearly 2 years. Firstly, neither Danica or anyone else that does this has sex with their clients; they are not prostitutes. Furthermore, no-one would consider me disabled or vulnerable in any way. I've been largely successful in life; I graduated university with a first class degree and have represented Great Britain internationally.

It's hard to pinpoint the exact time when I started doing this but I remember as a youngster being turned on by femme fatales in movies who used their bodies to get what they wanted from men (think poison ivy etc.) So I started searching for this kind of thing on the internet and in short this led me to BDSM, then lots of other things in between, and finally, financial domination. There is a fair bit of information on financial domination out there if you look for it. What it won't tell you, and what I was unaware of until recently, is how manipulative and scheming the majority of these women are (which unfortunately is even more of a turn on).

In no way am I saying I'm not to blame for the fact that I have spent over £3000 on these women in about two years (I've seen men spend over £100,000 and be evicted from their homes); clearly I chose to do it. What I will tell you is how heartless most of these people are (and you thought estate agents were bad). Most of these women will hook on to a fetish you already have (body parts usually) and use this to positively reinforce ideas through NLP and other brainwashing techniques such as verbal abuse (to break down self esteem). Hypnosis is widely used to instil the idea that you are not worthy of these women and that paying for their attention is what they (and you) deserve. Since you are watching a hot girl play on camera your subconscious is highly open to suggestion in your aroused state. Also because you achieve orgasm whilst buying gifts or paying them your brain associates the gift buying as a way to achieve orgasm/reward. This positively reinforces itself through the brain's dopamine reward system to the point where I am no longer aroused by 'normal sex'. This then works like any other addiction in that you feel guilty afterwards and the cycle begins again and you have to keep going to this woman and buying them gifts in order to achieve that high. You may laugh but one could argue it is even worse than heroin or alcohol since you can take as many 'hits' as you want and never pass out and the women are always available - you don't have to go to a dealer or off licence.

I've already waffled on loads and there's so much more to say. If there's enough interest I'll try and write more and answer any questions. Finally, I will say a bit about Danica in particular. I watched the documentary and it seemed to me like she had only just started doing this and at the time it was supplementing the other things she was doing (modelling and 900 channels). The impression I got from the show was that she was looking to go deeper in to it (who wouldn't? I've seen women who have bought Ferraris through doing this!) but the backlash she had since the show, and her new found fame, have put those aspirations on hold for now.

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Post by Flossie » Tue Aug 21, 2012 10:03 pm

She seems to specialise in getting men to buy her presents and has a wishlist on Amazon which includes £160 000 jewellery.

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Post by Anna » Fri Aug 24, 2012 9:30 pm

That's a really interesting post. I didn't really think anything about what Danica does until I read that. I had heard of financial domination, but hadn't really connected what she does to it, but of course it is.

I agree with Jasmine in that I have reservations about women doing this and had I been in Jasmine's place, I'd have felt uncomfortable with it too. It's a shame that because Jasmine was so volatile emotionally, it tended to detract from the fact that she could also be very perceptive.

I do think this activity is manipulating men on the basis of a compulsion those men have. I know they're willing participants, but then so is anyone who needs to get their 'fix' of whatever it is they're addicted to - doesn't make it healthy, or all harmless fun. I equate it to, say, providing someone with heroin to the extent where it becomes damaging, merely because they keep turning up with the money. I agree with Jasmine that at base, it's immoral and exploitative.

I'm appalled to read in the post you quote that some women practising this will use Neuro Linguistic Programming, hypnosis and brainwashing techniques, also abuse to break down a client's self-esteem and thus make them more malleable and dependent. I can't imagine Danica doing this, firstly because she seems 'nice' and secondly because she doesn't seem to have any knowledge of such techniques. However I question how nice she is really as she does seem to like to keep a man coming with the attention, without any intention of providing what he clearly wants. She does it in the BB house. I see it therefore as a dishonest 'transaction' or exchange. She holds out the promise to get attention (and presumably for a sense of power or control) without any intention of making good on the promise.

However her internet clients know this - that's the deal and indeed part of the satisfaction of their fetish - her denial of them is a turn on for them. But again, engaging in this activity is playing on and profiting from someone's sexual compulsion, which I can't come to terms with.

Interestingly, when I studied Economics, it was taught that the laws of supply and demand don't apply in the area of addiction. Where there's an addiction, or compulsion, the money will always be forthcoming, even to the ruin of some of those buying. People cannot make a rational decision.

In my mind, there's no doubt that this activity counts as working in the sex industry. She may not have sex with her clients, but she's engaging with the particular sexuality of these men and exploiting it. That's why I can't approve.

Having said that. I think Danica's naive, and has just taken it up as a way of making money, without necessarily being aware that it could be seen as having an unsavoury sub-text. Much as Samantha and Jasmine observed in the garden about Rian and Danica, there's no great strategy - they've simply discovered they've got tits and an arse and that they can make money from it.

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Post by Flossie » Sat Aug 25, 2012 12:13 am

I will be responding to this thoughtful post at some point.

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